Monday, August 5, 2013

Ron Washington was club's greatest manager before earning most wins

Sunday?s win provides tangible proof of what is already clear: Ron Washington is the greatest manager in Texas Rangers history.

No one has more wins in club history than Washington, who passed Bobby Valentine with the Rangers? series win in Oakland. It was a fitting place for Washington to earn the mark, since he spent more than a decade with the A?s as one of the top instructors in baseball.

[+] EnlargeRon WashingtonAP Photo/LM Otero

Ron Washington picked up his 582nd victory with the Rangers on Sunday, further validating he is the finest manager in the history of the franchise.

But Washington was the greatest Rangers manager before he claimed win No. 582 as the skipper.

Some of you will argue that the total number of wins doesn?t make Washington a great manager. He bunts too much. He goes with his gut too much. He needs a quicker hook. He?s too loyal and slow to change at times. He benefits from a smart front office and a wealth of young talent.

Some of those points are certainly valid. But couldn?t you make that case about nearly every manager in baseball? What gets lost in the second-guessing of late-inning pitching changes or pinch-hitting opportunities is why Washington was hired in the first place.

General manager Jon Daniels knew he wasn?t getting a shrewd statistician who would play the percentages. He knew he wasn?t getting someone who would make all the right moves.

Daniels hired someone who could teach a young team and an organization about how to win games and create a culture in which teammates relied on one another. He tabbed Washington because he saw in him a terrific motivator and someone who would, no matter how hard it might become, demand that pitching and defense become the hallmark of a contending team, instead of relying too much on a hard-hitting offense.

That?s what makes Washington great. He has helped mold this organization into a consistent winner. The front office has used shrewd trades, solid investment in international markets and money from the current ownership group to provide Washington with a solid team. He then structured the clubhouse in a way where the players act as willing accomplices to his message, forging a bond that is one of the best in the big leagues. The result is an annual contender that racks up wins.

When you?re as confused as I am when Washington inserts Robbie Ross, who?s struggling to get lefties out, against Josh Hamilton late in a tight game and the move backfires, remember he also moved Leonys Martin to the leadoff spot and Ian Kinsler to the 3-hole and it helped spark the offense. And how many thought that was going to work? This team has been littered with injuries, yet Washington has found a way to mix and match and keep his team right in the thick of the pennant race.

To this day, Washington makes moves or does things I don?t understand or would make if I were in his spot. But he also tries things that others wouldn?t dare. And he?s right a whole lot more than he?s wrong (only reminding me and any other ?Monday morning managers? of why he?s got the job and we don?t).

I remember during his first season as manager, Washington repeatedly passed up logical opportunities to use his bench late in games. The team would be in a one- or two-run game and he would opt to stick with his starters -- some of them young -- instead of using a more experienced hitter to try to spark a rally. Or he wouldn?t make some defensive changes late when they seemed warranted. A few times, I felt it cost them some games.

Finally, after watching this for a while, I asked Washington what he was doing. His answer was, essentially: I?m worried about the big picture and building this team into a title contender. I have to know if these young guys can do it and, more importantly, they have to know they can do it.

So Washington would stick with them. The fact that the game was close gave him the opportunity, while the team was clearly in a growing phase, to learn from mistakes or gain confidence from the success in a higher-stress situation late in a game. Other managers might have been worried simply about winning, period. Washington was worried about helping build a contender. And when he desperately needed his club to grind games out, as he likes to say, with his job on the line after a rocky start to the 2008 season, they did.

The lessons that Washington preached seeped throughout the organization. It built trust among Washington and his team and was a building block for the group that has brought this franchise its greatest years. Few teams in the majors play harder for their manager than the Rangers do for Washington.

And we know what a tremendous motivator he is -- through not only his ability to speak to his team and utilize the well-timed team meeting, but how he treats his players in an honest, up-front way without losing faith in them. Don?t discount how important all of that is in when they have to dig deep and fight to come back in a game or have to deal with postseason pressure.

It helps, too, that Washington doesn?t worry about his critics. He believes in what he?s doing and in that clubhouse, and that?s all the matters to him. What you or I say is meaningless, as it should be. All he has done is collect more wins than any other manager in club history and has those two World Series appearances on his resume. No other Texas manager can say that.

So congrats to Ron Washington. He is the greatest manager in Rangers history, period. And now no one has won more games, either.

Source: http://espn.go.com/blog/dallas/texas-rangers/post/_/id/4903251/washington-was-clubs-greatest-manager-before-earning-most-wins

amelia earhart heat Julius Richard Petri Prancercise kfor espn3 pacers

3 Steps for Regaining Your Love Life Following Trauma | World of ...

3 Steps for Regaining Your Love Life Following TraumaAfter suffering an abusive relationship or sexual trauma, it takes tremendous courage to date. And it can be even more difficult to accept intimacy from a good person.

However, once you know what to look for in terms of roadblocks, the path to love becomes much easier.

Below are three basic steps to help victims heal and find love once again.

1. Find a therapist.

Start your journey of healing with a trained professional. People beginning to date following abuse may have lowered standards. They may be more accepting of bad behavior in dating relationships.

Another common reaction to trauma is to test boundaries or seek high-drama relationships in order to feel intensity or strong feelings. A trained therapist can help identify and heal destructive dating patterns so that these types of relationships are no longer attractive.

2. Practice saying no every day.

It can be difficult to establish boundaries in everyday life after surviving abuse or trauma. You may fear rejection, even from friends and family, or worry that you risk angering others if you say no. But nothing is more powerful than to say no to someone you love, experience queasiness, and realize that your friendship or dating relationship has survived.

Saying no is a great test that the relationships you are forming with other people are healthy and well-balanced. No is not rejection. It is insight into who you are. A good friend or lover will respect ?no.? Even if it is ?no, I do not like that restaurant,? start telling people who you are today.

3. Reciprocate to build trust.

Reciprocation is the safe way to let go of fear and build trust in a relationship without being vulnerable. He or she does something nice, you do something nice back. He or she opens up about something personal, you open up about something personal. Great relationships are built over time where trust is developed by continuous positive interactions.

By slowly opening up to your partner, you can get a better sense of how you feel when you are around him or her. When you are aware of your feelings and acting in accordance with your values, you naturally develop healthy relationships.

?

For more on finding love after experiencing trauma, check out Dating after Trauma, available for Kindle on Amazon.com.

Like this author?
Catch up on other posts by Emily Avagliano (or subscribe to their feed).



????Last reviewed: By John M. Grohol, Psy.D. on 1 Aug 2013
????Published on PsychCentral.com. All rights reserved.

APA Reference
Avagliano, E. (2013). 3 Steps for Regaining Your Love Life Following Trauma. Psych Central. Retrieved on August 4, 2013, from http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2013/08/04/3-steps-for-regaining-your-love-life-following-trauma/

?

Source: http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2013/08/04/3-steps-for-regaining-your-love-life-following-trauma/

Google News Pray For Boston Anne Frank What Happened In Boston gold price defiance Ny Post

Ride London-Surrey: David Hodge and Laura Trott

Video Properties

NP! ID: 3131306

Title: Ride London-Surrey: David Hodge and Laura Trott

File Size: 321 bytes

Created: Sun, 08/04/2013 - 12:00pm

Modified: Sun, 08/04/2013 - 12:00pm

File Type: multimedia (text/plain)

Licence: None (All rights reserved)

Source: http://www.nowpublic.com/sports/ride-london-surrey-david-hodge-and-laura-trott

Sports Authority Hollister old navy walmart black friday walmart black friday Target Black Friday PacSun

Talking humanoid robot launches on Japan rocket

TOKYO (AP) ? The first talking humanoid robot "astronaut" has taken off in a rocket.

Kirobo ? derived from the Japanese words for "hope" and "robot" ? was among five tons of supplies and machinery on a rocket launched Sunday for the International Space Station from Tanegashima, southwestern Japan, the Japan Aerospace Exploration Agency, or JAXA, said.

The childlike robot was designed to be a companion for astronaut Koichi Wakata, and will communicate with another robot on Earth, according to developers. Wakata is expected to arrive at the space station in November.

Robot designer Tomotaka Takahashi, of the University of Tokyo, advertiser Dentsu and automaker Toyota Motor Corp. worked on the robot.

The challenge was making sure it could move and talk where there was no gravity.

Ahead of the launch, the 34-centimeter (13-inch) tall Kirobo told reporters, "one small step for me, a giant leap for robots."

Japan boasts the most sophisticated robotics in the world, but because of its "manga" culture, it tends to favor cute robots with human-like characteristics with emotional appeal, a use of technology that has at times drawn criticism for being not productive.

But Takahashi, the designer, said sending a robot into space could help write a new chapter in the history of communication.

"I wish for this robot to function as a mediator between person and machine, or person and Internet and sometimes even between people," he said.

JAXA, Japan's equivalent of NASA, said the rocket launch was successful, and the separation of a cargo vehicle, carrying the robot to the space station, was confirmed about 15 minutes after liftoff.

__

AP Video of the launch:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tYTmncujMrs&feature=c4-overview&list=UU52X5wxOL_s5yw0dQk7NtgA

Source: http://news.yahoo.com/talking-humanoid-robot-launches-japan-rocket-061256685.html

stephen jackson marchmadness mike d antoni nba trade rumors desean jackson 2012 ncaa tournament schedule laurent robinson

Sunday, August 4, 2013

US band Bloodhound Gang booted from Russia concert

MOSCOW (AP) ? The American rock group Bloodhound Gang was kicked out of a Russian music festival and pelted with eggs after videos emerged of its bass player shoving a Russian flag down his pants at a recent concert in Ukraine. Russian prosecutors are even considering whether to open a criminal case in the matter, which comes amid a rise in U.S.-Russian tensions.

Videos posted online of Wednesday's concert in the Ukrainian city of Odessa show bass player Jared Hasselhoff pushing the Russian white, blue and red flag down the front of his pants and pulling it out the back. He then shouted to the audience: "Don't tell Putin," a reference to Russian President Vladimir Putin.

The incident outraged the Russian government. Maria Minina, a spokeswoman for the weeklong Kubana festival in southern Russia, said Saturday that the band's headlining performance the previous evening had been canceled because of its treatment of the flag.

The American band is known for its sexually explicit songs, including "The Bad Touch," with its unforgettable lyrics: "You and me, baby, ain't nothin' but mammals, so let's do it like they do on the Discovery Channel."

Russian Culture Minister Vladimir Medinsky tweeted Friday night that he had spoken with officials in the southern Krasnodar region, known as Kuban. "Bloodhound Gang is packing its bags," he said in the Twitter post. "These idiots will not perform in Kuban."

Hasselhoff was questioned Saturday by police, according to the Russian Interior Ministry, which said prosecutors have been asked to decide if the musician could be charged with defaming the Russian flag.

The bass player apologized late Friday at a news conference held at the music festival in the city of Anapa, the local Yuga.ru news portal reported. He was quoted saying that he had meant no offense and explaining that it was a band tradition for everything thrown from the stage first to be passed through his pants. Hasselhoff said he decided to throw the flag because some fans had seemed disturbed to see it hanging on the stage.

The scandal caused by the American band in Russia comes at a time of heightened tensions between the two countries over National Security Agency leaker Edward Snowden, who was given temporary asylum in Russia last week to help him evade prosecution in the U.S.

As the Bloodhound Gang members were driving to the Anapa airport on Saturday, activists from a pro-Kremlin youth group threw eggs and tomatoes at their vehicle, Yuga.ru reported.

The band members were taken off their afternoon flight to Moscow after they had already boarded the plane, Russian news agencies reported, citing airline officials. After being questioned by transport police, they took a later flight, the reports said.

Source: http://news.yahoo.com/us-band-bloodhound-gang-booted-russia-concert-151111216.html

lamichael james acl earthquake los angeles unemployment 2012 nfl draft grades young justice d rose

Kathy Bates happy being part of FX's 'Horror'

(AP) ? Kathy Bates says she's thrilled to be a regular on FX's "American Horror Story."

It's almost good enough to rid her of the bad taste from her previous stint on series TV.

Even so, she told reporters at a Television Critics Association session on Friday that she's got a bone to pick with NBC, which cancelled "Harry's Law" last season after a two-year run.

Bates said NBC "kicked us to the curb."

Things are happier on her current project, which just began shooting in New Orleans.

The Oscar-winning Bates plays Madame LaLaurie, a real-life 19th-Century Louisiana socialite and serial killer. She co-stars with Sarah Paulson, Angela Bassett and Jessica Lange, who plays a witch.

"American Horror Story: Coven" premieres in October.

Associated Press

Source: http://hosted2.ap.org/APDEFAULT/4e67281c3f754d0696fbfdee0f3f1469/Article_2013-08-02-US-TV-Bates-American-Horror-Story/id-c6b60ee801324d1da31120c02ad649ee

grenada Sikh Sanya Richards Ross decathlon Honey Boo Boo Child Nathan Adrian London 2012 Synchronized Swimming

Talking to Children about a Parent's Sex Addiction | World of ...

Talking to Children about a Parent's Sex AddictionWorking with sex addiction clients who are parents inevitably brings up the question, ?How and what do we tell the children??

The answer to this question varies from family to family and with the children?s ages and developmental level. Regardless of whether the children are young or adults, parents always want to do the best that they can to help their children through this process.

Children of any age in any family where addiction is present can present a unique challenge. Questions arise as to what, if and how much to tell children about the addiction. Another question that arises is how much the children have been affected by the sexual addiction.

Talking to children about a partner?s sex addiction can be an especially daunting task for a parent. Thoughtful consideration needs to be given as to how to present the information in an appropriate manner. Often, ?sweeping problems under the rug? has been an issue in the sex addict?s family or that of their partner?s family of origin, and secrets and lies have played a role in the addictive cycle for the adults involved. So communicating effectively in a way that benefits the children can be an important step toward breaking this negative cycle.

Parents? behaviors and the way they relate with each other affect children deeply and profoundly. When parents are in crisis, there can be times where a parent does not communicate well with their child, or exhibits depression and anxiety that the child senses. Poor relational skills on a parent?s part can be a source of upset and hurt for children, and can result in the child internalizing negative messages about relationships that follow them into their adult life.

As much as parents wish to shield children from their own mistakes, keeping secrets does not accomplish this.

Prior to disclosing information to children, it is very helpful to speak with a skilled therapist and give careful consideration to what is going to be said. It may be the best choice not to share information regarding the sex addict?s acting-out behaviors; the important thing is to engage in an honest dialogue for a child?s feelings to be heard and voiced.

Older or adult children may need to be told more information, so that their perception of what has occurred is validated, and they can build the coping strategies to manage their feelings surrounding what has happened in the family system.

Regardless, it is very important that parents model addressing problems directly, rather than covertly to propagate healthy strategies for dealing with life issues. A solid relationship with a skilled therapist trained in love and sex addiction can help guide parents through this process.

?

Alexandra Katehakis, MFT, CST, CSAT is the founder and Clinical Director of Center for Healthy Sex in Los Angeles, where she and her staff successfully treat a full spectrum of sexual disorders, ranging from issues of sexual desire and dysfunction to the treatment of sexual addiction. She is the author of Erotic Intelligence: Igniting Hot, Healthy Sex While in Recovery from Sex Addiction and co-author of Making Advances: A Comprehensive Guide for Treating Female Sex and Love Addicts. Her free Daily Meditations on healthy sex and love are open to the public at www.centerforhealthysex.com/sex-meditation. Since 2006, Ms. Katehakis has studied affective neuroscience with Allan N. Schore, incorporating regulation theory into her treatment of sexual addiction. Alex is the 2012 recipient of the Carnes Award, a prestigious acknowledgement for her contributions to the field of sex addiction. More information can be found on her website, centerforhealthysex.com.

Like this author?
Catch up on other posts by Alexandra Katehakis, MFT, CST, CSAT (or subscribe to their feed).



????Last reviewed: By John M. Grohol, Psy.D. on 1 Aug 2013
????Published on PsychCentral.com. All rights reserved.

APA Reference
Katehakis, A. (2013). Talking to Children about a Parent?s Sex Addiction. Psych Central. Retrieved on August 4, 2013, from http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2013/08/02/talking-to-children-about-a-parents-sex-addiction/

?

Source: http://psychcentral.com/blog/archives/2013/08/02/talking-to-children-about-a-parents-sex-addiction/

julia child Chad Johnson Twitter Helen Gurley Brown Kathi Goertzen Johnny Pesky spice girls justin theroux